
I Put Myself in the Shoes of the Audience
The “Success Magic” middle and high school assembly program is probably the most challenging but at the same time, it’s also the most rewarding. When I develop an assembly program, I put myself in the shoes of the audience members and try to experience it through their eyes. I remember back in the day the last thing I wanted was for some old guy to preach to me about what he thought was best for me. So here are the simple rules I follow when creating and performing an assembly program for this age group. 1- I always include entertainment and for this age group, magic works best. 2-I make certain the magic is strong and age appropriate. 3- I never speak for longer than 2-3 minute stretches.
Phone Calls from Anxious Principals
When I first made the transition to include middle school and high school programs, I received telephone inquiries from anxious principals wanting reassurance that I could present a quality program that would be free of wandering eyeballs, private conversations, inappropriate laughs, heckling and other telltale behavior confirming that I am not ready to tackle this challenging age group. But there is no substitute for experience.
The Day I Earned my Stripes
I’ll never forget the day when I finally earned my stripes as a motivational magician. About 7 years ago, I found was performing for a group of tough inner city 7th and 8th graders at a middle school in Trenton, NJ. As I began my program, a defiant girl made the decision that she was going to be the center of attention, not me. She was clearly testing and disrespecting me as she decided to conduct a loud private conversation with her neighbor, completely disregarding the fact that I was on stage speaking. To make matters worse, there were no teachers or faculty members present who were taking any actions to help me. It was apparent that I was on my own and I needed to take action quickly or else I was doomed. Having no other choice, I leaped off the stage and headed in the girl’s direction. As I approached her, I said in a stern yet calm voice “Today’s program is about making the right decisions and respecting others and it looks like we have a person here who can learn a thing or two about both of these topics.” I then looked her squarely in the eyes and loudly said ”Let’s see if this person can make the right decision and show some respect to the performer who is a guest at the school”. At this moment there was a gasp from the entire group and a collective “Whoa”. I would be lying if I told you I wasn’t just a little bit scared. I went back on stage continued the program and to my surprise, she remained silent and respectful as did the rest of the group for the remainder of the program.
Practice Makes Perfect
Of course, this is an extreme isolated case and nothing like this has ever happened to me since. In fact, over the years I have honed and perfected my Success Magic program to the point where wandering eyeballs, private conversations and heckling are a thing of the past.
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