New Anti-Bullying Guidelines

As you know, the state of New Jersey has implemented new anti-bullying guidelines and laws for the entire statewide school system. Not surprisingly, I have been getting many requests from middle school principals, guidance counselors and anti-bullying specialists to present a assembly program specifically on anti-bullying that is middle school age appropriate and has powerful anti-bullying messages.

 “Respect Magic- the Middle School Anti-Bullying Assembly Program”

As a result, in addition to my premier middle school assembly program “Success Magic”-Difficult Choices… Successful Decisions, I am now performing “Respect Magic”- the Middle School Anti-bullying Program. Both programs are age appropriate for middle school students and follow the same format of delivering powerful magic along with equally powerful messages.

A Short Video Testimonial

Please watch a short testimonial from Mr. Robert MClaughlin Principal of Woodbridge Middle School who recently had me perform for his grade 7 and 8 students. Please feel free to browse my blog for some articles containing insight, information, and performance footage. Also, for more information on “Respect Magic” and to see additional video testimonials and performance video please visit my website  by clicking here middle-school-assemblies .

 Let’s Write a Song Together

During a recent 30-minute songwriting workshop following a ”Be a Peacemaker” anti-bullying assembly program at a K-5 elementary school, I collaborated with a group of students to write an original song that would reinforce the messages learned in the assembly program. I often wonder about how much impact I can have on a group of students in a 50-minute assembly program but it became clear to me that at least one person was paying attention to the messages in the program.

The #1 Anti-bullying Message

I believe that the most important message of my “Be a Peacemaker” anti-bullying program is that in order to respect others and receive respect you must first respect yourself. I believe that the more self confidence a person has, the less likely they are bully or make fun of others or to become victims of bullying. I do this by explaining that we all possess an “inner magic” which could be a talent, ability, a passion or a potential for greatness which sets us apart from each other.  I encourage each student not only to explore their inner magic is but I explain that the #1 rule for being a Peacemaker is to treat others like they have magic inside and to “bring out the magic” in others.

Tingles up and down my Spine

The “AHA” moment for me came at the beginning of the songwriting workshop when I asked the kids to come up with a related topic or song title that they would like to write about.  Then a fourth grade student raised her hand and said “you told us that we all have magic inside and that our goal as peacemakers is to figure out what our inner magic is and to treat others like they have magic inside and to help others find their inner magic. Let’s write a song about that”.  Her comment brought an immediate smile to my face and sent tingles up and down my spine. We went on to write and perform a terrific original song called “Everybody’s Got Magic Inside”. Moments like this make it all worthwhile for me because at that moment it became clear to me that this girl’s life was changed for the better and as a result, it had a ripple effect which spread to the other students in the workshop.

 

Thanks for reading and please leave a comment.

Jeff

 

The Best Compliment

It’s no secret that I love compliments and testimonials from satisfied clients. After all, who doesn’t?  However, the best compliment that I can ever get as a performer actually doesn’t come in the form of a typical compliment or video testimonial. It usually comes in the form of a phone call or email that says “Everybody loved your program so much and we want to book you again”. Likewise, receiving a similar phone call or email saying “I was referred to you from so and so and I would like to book you to come to perform for our students.”

For me, there is no better feeling than knowing that I have impacted people’s lives and gained their trust in such a way that they have either decided to have me return for another performance and/or they have decided to put their necks on the line by recommending me to others who they think would benefit from my programs.

VIP Day

Earlier this year I received such a call from Kerrie McDonnell from Spring Lake Heights Elementary School and this past Friday I had the pleasure of returning to perform at their annual VIP day. Each student can invite an adult VIP (Usually their parents) to come to school and spend the day with them. I was honored to have my performance kick off the special day.

Afterwards, Kerrie McDonnell was nice enough to say a few words about my performance which I have included on the video below.

Thanks for reading and watching and as always please look around the site and feel free to post comments. Also, for more information on assembly programs for students of all grade levels from K-12 please visit www.magicalsongwriter.com.

Jeff Blum

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Writing my first song

I remember writing my first song. It was 1978 and I was a lonely 19 year old college student driving alone late at night back to school from the Jersey shore to University of Maryland.  I couldn’t get any radio stations to come in clearly so I just started singing. Being an avid New York Mets fan I started singing the slogan of the Mets at the time which was “The Magic is Back” which of course was not true. Anyway,by the time I got to Delaware, I had most of the song written in my head. I remember arriving at my fraternity house in the middle of the night and even though I was exhausted, I picked up my guitar and finished the process by figuring out the music that went along with my made up tune.

It wasn’t until many years later through much trial and error and time and energy that I figured out some of the finer points of songwriting and recording music. It wasn’t until 20 years later when my songwriting blossomed when my guitar teacher showed me how he writes and records songs. Unfortunately, I was working full time and did not have the time to devote to a songwriting career. I wonder how much easier the process would have been for me if I learned that process at a much earlier age. Today with the advent of computer software programs it makes the process so much easier than it was for me.

We can write a song together in 30-minutes

I created 30-minute songwriting  workshops with the idea of removing the barriers that so many of us have to writing songs. Most people think it’s too hard or that they don’t have the talent or ability. But in my workshops I break the entire process down step by step and show kids how easy it can be to write a song.

That being said, songwriting workshops are the most rewarding yet most challenging programs I offer.  Consider this… In one 30 minute session we choose a song title, write original song  lyrics, create an appropriate guitar chord progression and drumbeat, and then we perform and record the song.

I have expanded the songwriting workshop experience into the “Write a Cool School song” assembly program where together we create a school song. Please watch this video to see a demonstration of the “Write a Cool School song” assembly program and workshops.

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Also, please visit my web site http://www.magicalsongwriter.com/songwriting.html for more information.

Thanks and please post comments. Jeff

OK… you have one minute. Ready, Set, Go!

Each day I am faced with the monumental challenge of having a life changing impact on a group of several hundred elementary, middle or high school students… in 50 minutes. Truthfully, I know that I have less than one minute to capture and engage the audience’s attention or else the next 49 minutes will be an eternity of wandering eyeballs, private conversations, yawns and lack of attention.

The obvious way to get these challenging groups on your side is to engage them by making the experience fun and entertaining. This is relatively easy to accomplish, however when dealing with school audiences, there is a greater challenge. The fun and entertainment must be combined with important, life changing, positive messages in such a way that the students are engaged and the administration is satisfied that the students are receiving a benefit beyond pure entertainment.  Truthfully, I shudder at the thought of presenting a program to a group of students without having the assistance of some form of entertainment to include in my presentation.  However, I must know my audience and choose my material very carefully.

The “Amazing Magic Talking Drawing Board” is an example of an opening effect that I use for my younger audiences which captures their attention and sets the tone for the rest of the program. Check it out.

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It is for this reason that many motivational performers remain pigeonholed into one specific age group as I was when I first started out. My programs were suitable for Pre-K-grade 3 audiences but the first time I tried performing the same program for a group of grade 4-6 students, wandering eyeballs and private conversations made it obvious to me that changes were needed.  The same issues arose when I transitioned to middle and high school students.  Now I can proudly say that I have age appropriate, engaging school assembly programs for every group of students from grade K-12.

Thanks for reading and please leave comments.

Jeff Blum


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Video Testimonial from Andrea Vladichak

Principal of Richard Butler Middle School

Butler, NJ

I would be lying if I said that I didn’t love approval and praise. Deep down on some level I think we all do. But I also believe that performers by nature have a deeper need for approval and praise and I am no exception. In addition to providing honest feedback, it also provides me with a sense of purpose and fulfillment that I need to let me know that my efforts are worthwhile and that what I’m doing is making a difference.

When I watched the above testimonial from Mrs. Vladichak, principal of Richard Butler Middle School, I thought back to my very first “Success Magic” middle school performance 10 years ago.  A smile came to face and I literally got “goosebumps” as it dawned on me that I had successfully achieved what I set out to do. In fact, I couldn’t have said it better myself.

Thanks, Mrs. Vladichak.

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“Wanna see a trick ?”

Whether it’s a wedding, Bar/ Bat Mitzvah, corporate event or private party, there’s more to choosing the right magician than meets the eye. With a little bit of practice and desire, anybody can learn how to do a series of magic tricks. But when it comes to performing at a special event, just “doing tricks” for people is not enough. If the spectator perceives the magic merely as a “trick” then they will focus on trying to figure out how the trick is done quick to point out that they “saw something” and in the end, they may seem impressed, but clearly there is something missing from the overall experience. This points to the main difference between the amateur and professional magician.

Emotionally involve the spectator

While both the amateur and professional are highly skilled, the polished, professional  magician has the ability to emotionally involve the spectator to the point where the magic becomes secondary to the overall experience.  While the amateur is more concerned with displaying and showcasing his talents so as to impress the spectator, the professional magician has learned how to set aside his ego and allow the spectator to become the star of the show by emotionally involving the spectator in the overall experience. This is accomplished only through experience which allows the performer to create a compelling, comedic, or crazy set of emotional circumstances around the magic that  involves the spectator in a way that has a lasting emotional effect on the spectator.

“Look at me, look at me!!!”

Unfortunately, by allowing the ego to get in the way, the amateur makes it all about himself with an attitude of  ”look at me and watch this trick and you’ll be impressed with how good I am”.  At first, this approach may seem fine but ultimately it can result in the spectator feeling a sense of resentment as the magician used the performance as an opportunity to show off at the expense of the spectator.  Now the spectator may intentionally attempt to expose the secret to the trick or upstage the magician which if not handled properly may result in a negative experience.

Please watch the above performance video and see how the spectators become emotionally involved in the magic leading to awesome emotionally charged reactions that  leave a lasting impression on the guests as they beg for more.

Thanks and as always please look around the site and leave comments. Also please visit my website at  http://www.magicalsongwriter.com/corporate.html

Jeff Blum

 

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Didn’t we meet two years ago?

This is another in my series of “performance only” videos. It’s one of my favorite effects because it’s easy to follow, extremely baffling, and it involves not only the spectator but the spectator’s spouse and friends as well. I mean after all, if a strange magician came up to your spouse and claimed that they met two years ago wouldn’t you be a little bit anxious and curious?

In this effect please notice how at first the spectators are puzzled and “taken aback” by my initial comments. Then notice how they gradually realize it’s all part of the effect. In the end we all realize it’s all in fun and we joke about it.

As always, thanks for watching and please leave comments. Jeff Blum

Can I Ask You a Question?

Interestingly, one of the most important things I do as a motivational performer happens on the very first interaction I have with a prospective client. I ask a simple yet powerful question that goes something like this… “which assembly programs have you had in the past that have worked out the best for you?” I ask this question for three reasons. First, it tells me if this is my client’s first time booking a program or if they have done  it before. Either way I am now better prepared to offer my advice. It also gives me great insight into what my client is looking for so that I can better communicate how and if my programs can fill their specific needs. Second, I learn more about what is available in my market and what other performers are doing that works. As a result, I may get an idea that may help to improve the effectiveness of my programs by making slight modifications.

Horror Stories!!!

But the main reason I ask the question is because it leads into the natural follow up question “Which assembly programs have you had in the past that didn’t work out quite so well for you?” The response I typically get at this point is a smile followed by a pause followed by a horror story that goes something like this… “Oh my God! it was awful! The kids just sat there staring into space! He went on and on and on and he had no idea they weren’t even paying attention. The principal had to stop the assembly to quiet the kids down three times. It was so embarrassing! I have also heard accounts of performers using inappropriate language, questionable actions and subject matter that quite frankly were shocking to me.

Who’s Responsible for Booking This Guy?

When booking an assembly program, your reputation and hard earned money is on the line. The last thing you need is to get approached by angry staff members and students asking “who’s responsible for  booking this guy?” You need to be sure that the person you hire will deliver what he or she promises. In the past, this required either relying on the performer’s biased description, calling and hopefully speaking to a past client’s reference, travelling across the state to preview the performer’s program, or having to rely on written testimonials that could be taken out of context or possibly even fabricated altogether.   But there a much better and much easier way…

Get it on Video

Below is a video of my past performances. You can not only see the performance but you can also see how I interact with the audience and you can also see their response. I also have numerous unsolicited video testimonials from past satisfied clients who were nice enough to share their experience on video. This way you can see exactly what you are getting before you book the program.

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I Guarantee that your assembly program will be a success

In addition, I offer a guarantee of satisfaction that simply states:

“If you are HONESTLY not satisfied with my performance for any reason I will not accept your payment.”

Thanks for reading and please leave comments. I look forward to hearing from you.

Jeff Blum

Kids just “wanna have fun”

If you are an adult and have ever tried to teach an important lesson to a child you may be disappointed when you learn that what may be crucially important to you may not seem the least bit important to them. One of the reasons for this is that kids have not yet crossed the threshold of adulthood and thus they lack the responsibility needed to care about the same things that you do.

To understand kids and get messages through to them you must look at the world through their eyes, and at the top of their list is a three letter word called “FUN”. Over the years, I have incorporated three types of fun into my themed school assembly programs: magic, music and “pseudo” ventriloquism using “Vinnie the Bird”.

Together we can stamp out bullying

I have been performing an anti-bullying routine involving Vinnie the Bird which has been the cornerstone of my “Be a Peacemaker” school assembly program for many years. Please watch a performance of this routine and see how I incorporate fun and comedy into the routine in such a way to engage and interest the kids. Once they are emotionally involved and engaged in the story, together we learn what to do to help Vinnie deal with the horrors of being bullied and made fun of.

Thanks to Vinnie the  ”Be  a Peacemaker” school assembly program is one of my most popular programs and I would love to come to your school to perform it for your students.

Jeff

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